The Freedom to Refuse Love

Often hell is portrayed as a place of punishment and heaven as a place of reward. But this concept easily leads us to think about God as either a policeman, who tries to catch us when we make a mistake and send us to prison when our mistakes become too big, or a Santa Claus, who counts up all our good deeds and puts a reward in our stocking at the end of the year.

God, however, is neither a policeman nor a Santa Claus.

God does not send us to heaven or hell depending on how often we obey or disobey. God is love and only love. In God there is no hatred, desire for revenge, or pleasure in seeing us punished. God wants to forgive, heal, restore, show us endless mercy, and see us come home. But just as the father of the prodigal son let his son make his own decision, God gives us the freedom to move away from God’s love, even at the risk of destroying ourselves.

Hell is not God’s choice. It is ours.

~ Henri Nouwen

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One thought on “The Freedom to Refuse Love

  1. Jennifer says:

    Wow. Very powerful. Amazing that an all-powerful God would love us enough to let us choose. And oh for the wisdom to choose Him more.

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